An Irish politician has called for âa bit of common senseâ after a government-supported campaign urged grandparents to seek consent before hugging their grandkids.
Released by the group We-Consent â a project of the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre which is supported by government agencies â the 25-second public service announcement boldly declares: âNot everyone wants a hug. Even from the people who love them.â
âAwkward? Maybe. Important? Absolutely,â the campaign adds.


The video features one grandchild happily hugging their grandparents, while another appears uncomfortable as her grandparents lean in for an embrace.
In response to the campaign, Irish Councillor Gavin Pepper slammed both the âGovernment and [non-governmental organizations]â for âlosing the run of ourselves.â
âOf course children should be taught about boundaries and nobody should ever be forced into physical contact they donât want,â the fired-up pol wrote on Facebook alongside the video ad.
âBut we also need a bit of common sense.â
Pepper described the ârelationship between grandparents and grandkidsâ as âone of the most important bonds in Irish family life,â noting that âa hug from a loving grandparent should not be presented as something strange or suspicious.â

The outraged politician slammed the government for âtalking constantly about changing traditionsâ and argued âthere comes a point where people are entitled to say: leave some things aloneâ
âIrish culture, family and traditions matter,â he said.
Pepper doubled down on teaching children boundaries and respectâ but begged to âbring some common sense back into the conversation as well.â
We-Consent â supported by Ireland’s Department of Justice and Department of Children, Disability and Equality â describes itself as a long-term national program that aims to inform, educate and engage with all members of our society about consent.

The advertisement, which has gone viral on social media, garnering mixed reactions such as âwhat the fâkâ and âhow is this real?, does not appear on any of We-Consentâs online platforms.
It is unclear when or if the organization removed the video from their pages.
âThe government needs to answer for this. It’s bonkers,â one social media user wrote.
âIâm sorry, but this just seems absolutely ridiculous. This is not how taxpayersâ money should be spent. What next? A campaign to tell us that not everyone wants to be offered a cup of tea?,â another slammed.

âThis is actually both the saddest and most enraging thing I have seen for a long time. I mean WTAF? One of the most precious relationships is grandparents and grandchildren. HOW did this get signed off?,â said another.
However, Irish Councillor Lorraine Hall defended the campaign on X, writing sheâs “embarrassed” for anyone who took the ad literally instead of as a âfigurative message.â
âEmbarrassed for all the people that think that this is a literal rather than a figurative messageâ¦and have forgotten that advertising creativity is a thing,â the pol wrote.
âOh yesâ¦and also to state the obvious – advertising does work,â she said.
We-Consent and the Dublin Rape Crisis Center did not immediately return The Postâs request for comment.
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