What is your idea of perfect happiness? A peaceful, joyous time in the world…or in my head.
Which historical figure do you most identify with? Well, not identify as such, but I love his quotes: Lao Tzu. Here’s one: “He who knows that enough is enough will always have enough.”
Which living person do you most admire? I most admire Steve Sondheim, who is not alive anymore. But his words and music keep him alive.
What is the trait you most deplore in others? People’s need to feel superior to others. All it does is cause judgment and hate.
What is your greatest extravagance? Taking care of the two beautiful souls who are my dogs, which I don’t consider an extravagance at all.
What is your favorite journey? Traveling to Africa on safari. You can’t imagine just how amazing it is. And then going to Rwanda to visit the gorillas. They say hi, by the way.
What or who is the greatest love of your life? Top of the list is my husband, Tom. Then, of course, Charlie. You know who you are…woof!
Which talent would you most like to have? I would love to be able to play the piano really, really well. Can you imagine sitting down and filling a room with Mozart or Beethoven?
If you were to die and come back as a person or thing, what do you think it would be? One of Bernadette Peters’s dogs, of course! They live the best lives ever. I’m telling ya, you should all sign up!
What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? When you have no love or compassion left for yourself…terrible things happen.
When and where were you happiest? I have a lot to be grateful for, but right now, being married. Having time to be with my husband and his children. I feel very grateful.
Who are your heroes in real life? People who decide to make a difference and do something to change things when help is needed. Like the man who built Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS, Tom Viola.
What do you most value in your friends? Honesty, trustworthiness, and a deep understanding of emotions.
Who are your favorite writers? I love Elizabeth Strout. Her characters all intertwine. You don’t have to read all of her books, but I do. I’m
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