There’s nothing like a move to prompt a thorough decluttering session. An international move makes the mission even more pressing. Over the past five years, as I moved from Canada to the UK and back again, I’ve absolutely mastered the art of decluttering.
My first move was fairly easy. I’d been living in a shared rental with roommates, so I only needed to pack up my room. Still, before leaving, I remember weekly donation trips to thrift stores and endless posts to Facebook Marketplace trying to sell or give away what I couldn’t take. After weeks of decluttering, I managed to condense my belongings into a single suitcase and carry-on.
My husband and I accumulated a lot of stuff together
The second time was much harder. I moved to the UK for love, and while there, I started building a home with my husband. Like any new couple moving into their first place, we had fun making it our own. I became obsessed with the clothing and decor stores that weren’t available in Canada.
Over four years, our one-bedroom apartment became filled with cute vases, plant pots, decorative plates, funny mugs, fitness equipment, novelty games, and books that we never got around to reading. Our storage closet was a mini danger zone with its haphazard stacks of boxes and containers — think Monica Geller’s closet of shame in “Friends.”
An international move forced us to pare down yet again
In 2022, my husband and I decided to return to Canada for a calmer pace of life and easier access to nature. We’d been living in the bustling post-industrial Birmingham, where he was from, while I was from the more relaxed, coastal city of Vancouver. We gave ourselves just under a year to plan the move and pack up our lives again.
Remembering how long it took me to declutter and pack before moving the first time around, I began the process five months before our official move. I had grown attached to many of my new belongings, but I had to be honest with myself about their practicality. There’s only so much you can fit into a suitcase.
I started with my wardrobe, purging impulse purchases and seldom-worn items. I was left with a streamlined capsule wardrobe that’s still serving me well a year and a half after my return to Canada; it all fit into a carry-on and a checked bag, much like what I brought with me when I first arrived in the UK.
The home goods were harder to deal with. I didn’t want to let go of everything because starting from scratch is expensive. I had to get rid of the bigger pieces, like plant pots, and generic items like dinnerware.
We shipped over a box with a handful of decor pieces we really liked (along with our winter coats), but otherwise, all we had with us was two checked pieces of luggage and our carry-ons when we got to the airport. However, I’m embarrassed to say we didn’t manage to get rid of everything; our landlords messaged us to let us know we had left behind a few trinkets in the cupboards.
Our move made me realize just how easy it is to accumulate things you don’t really need. Since we’ve been back in Canada, we’ve adopted a minimalist lifestyle and have been very selective with what enters our home. And we’ve never felt more at peace.
We’re in another one-bedroom apartment, but now, we’re without a storage closet to dump our clutter into. Although we’re not planning on moving abroad again, I live with the mindset that I might at any given time — how easily would I be able to pack up my life again if I needed to? With our current streamlined wardrobes and practical selection of home goods, I’d like to think we wouldn’t need another six months to declutter if the occasion arises again.
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