We’re a throuple raising young children together — here’s why we’re more responsible than regular parents

Good parents just might come in threes.

An “inseparable” throuple who raise three children together say they’re more responsible than regular moms and dads.

Frank Eric Blackcloud II, 40, Tatyana Brown, 33, and Lexi Bowman, 26, live under one roof with kids Oliver, 13, Sage, 7, and Naiomi, 5.

“Lexi came into our lives in the summer of 2025,” Tatyana told What’s The Jam about their unconventional arrangement.

Frank Eric Blackcloud II, Tatyana Brown, and Lexi Bowman smiling together for a selfie. — Frank Eric Blackcloud and Tatyana Brown met Lexi Bowman (left) last summer. They formed a throuple and are raising Blackcloud and Brown’s children together. Jam Press

Frank, Lexi, and Tatyana, a polyamorous throuple, smiling for a selfie in a car. — Lexi Bowman (center) is helping to raise her partners’ children. Jam Press

Eric, who works in pest control, and tattoo artist Tatyana first met 11 years ago as friends before falling in love.

After Tatyana opened up about being bisexual, the couple cautiously explored non-monogamy – eventually meeting dog groomer Lexi and deciding to build a life together.

“Any time you step outside of what people are used to, there’s going to be a learning curve,” Tatyana said.

The throuple insists they provide a more stable, supportive and prosperous home for their three children in San Diego, California.

Tatyana leads in the kitchen, Lexi takes care of the garden, and Eric handles heavier maintenance and keeps the house pest-free.

School runs and homework are managed by Tatyana and Lexi.

“Finances are a shared responsibility,” Tatyana told What’s The Jam. “We’re currently in the process of formalizing that even further with a joint account.”

Frank and Tatyana smiling at the camera in a brightly lit room with arcade games and a — Frank and Tatyana first met 11 years ago. They opened up their relationship for Lexi last summer. Jam Press

Lexi Bowman holding her dog, which has pink fur and pink booties, in a parking lot. — Lexi is a dog groomer who is helping to raise Blackcloud and Bowman’s kids. She takes care of the garden and helps with homework. Jam Press

Tatyana and Eric were raising their three children before welcoming Lexi into the fold as a quasi-step-parent.

“When Lexi first met the kids, it was intentionally low-pressure,” Tatyana said. “It wasn’t framed as a big announcement or major event.”

“Over time, as she showed up consistently and calmly, their comfort grew organically,” she added. “The first meetings weren’t dramatic. They were normal, which is exactly what we wanted.”

Lexi Bowman kissing Frank Eric Blackcloud II on the cheek. — Lexi has helped spice up — and strengthen — the relationship between Blackcloud and Bowman. Jam Press

Tatyana insists the relationship has made her more emotionally accountable – and even strengthened her bond with Eric.

“Being in a polyamorous relationship has forced me to become more emotionally accountable,” she explained. “In monogamy, it was easier to sit in my feelings quietly or push them aside. Now, I can’t hide from them.”

It’s also made her feel less pressure when it comes to Eric’s well-being.

“There’s also a different kind of support,” she dished. “I don’t feel like I have to carry the entire emotional weight of my partner’s happiness alone, and he doesn’t carry mine alone either.”

“Polyamory, for us, feels more intentional,” she concluded. “It requires more honesty, more self-reflection, and more communication. It’s not easier, but it feels fuller.”

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