What is your earliest memory of finding out that there are vast differences between people when it comes to financial security?
Maybe you encountered a person on the street asking for money; or a classmate brought an expensive item to school that got everyone’s attention; or you visited a friend’s home that revealed a different level of wealth than your family.
Do you remember what emotions you felt or what questions came up? Did you talk to your family about it? If so, what, if anything, did they tell you?
How do you think that experience shaped the way you think about money and social class today?
In “Their Kids Had Questions About Wealth Inequality. How Did They Respond?,” Kristin Wong writes about how some parents attempt to explain such topics to their children. She begins:
This summer, Catherine Collins took her 11-year-old twins, Aria and Edison, to visit the Field Museum in Chicago. As they walked back to the car, Ms. Collins and her children noticed a woman across the street with a cardboard sign, asking for change. Edison asked his mother a question that stopped her in her tracks.
“He was very emotional, and he said: ‘Mom, why does that woman need money? And why are her kids with her?’” said Ms. Collins, 38, who co-hosts “Five Year You,” a podcast about personal development.
The question brought up important issues about wealth and structural inequality, social class differences and privilege — all topics she wasn’t sure how to explain to a child.
“When we got home, we had a conversation about how not everybody has the same resources, not everybody has the same access to things, not everybody has a home,” Ms. Collins said. “I hoped that I answered in the right way, but I think it would be a disservice to the kids for me to think that I have all the right answers.”
As millions of Americans are at risk of losing access to the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program and more people are becoming homeless across the country, signs of inequality are everywhere. Children notice these signs, and many parents are figuring out how to navigate conversations when their children have questions. Some encourage their children to ask more questions, use family movie nights to have conversations and rely on parenting books for ways to talk about the topics.
Students, read the entire article and then tell us:
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Do your parents ever talk to you about money and wealth inequality? If so, what are those conversations like? Do you wish you talked about these topics more — or less — in your household?
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What is a memorable conversation or experience you have had around money and social class with your parents? What happened? What did you learn from them? How has that conversation or experience shaped how you think about money and class today?
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If not from your parents, where else have you learned about wealth inequality? In school, on social media, in books or movies, from personal experience or somewhere else? What messages have you taken away? Do you think those messages are accurate?
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The author writes that “signs of inequality are everywhere” these days. Do you agree? What are some of the signs of financial inequality that you notice in your own world or society at large?
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How important do you think it is for families to discuss money, class difference and privilege? At what age should children be before their parents start having these conversations with them? What advice do you have for adults about how they should talk to kids about this subject?
Students 13 and older in the United States and Britain, and 16 and older elsewhere, are invited to comment. All comments are moderated by the Learning Network staff, but please keep in mind that once your comment is accepted, it will be made public and may appear in print.
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Natalie Proulx is an editor at The Learning Network, a Times free teaching resource.
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