This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Susie Coughlin, 43, an interior designer from Falmouth, Maine. It has been edited for length and clarity.
When our daughter, Carter, started struggling with reading, we thought it was related to her late birthday and the fact that almost everybody else in her class was a whole year older.
Her father, Paul, and I decided that she should repeat kindergarten in her public school. In her first year, she’d been put in a Response to Intervention (RTI) program to improve her literacy skills. However, at the parent/teacher conference during her second year, we were told she wouldn’t receive RTI.
It didn’t make sense because she wasn’t progressing. Her self-confidence was low because it seemed like everyone else around her could read.
What I heard from the teacher was, “It’s OK. We’re gonna let your kid slide through.” Being a child myself who was allowed to slide, I hit the brakes. At that moment, I thought, “My kid’s not going to be the kid that’s just going to slide through.”
We had to employ a reading tutor
A key issue was the school district didn’t teach phonics for reading. Instead, the kids are taught to scan the page for picture clues to the word — often at the expense of pronunciation and spelling.
For example, Carter wrote in her homework, “I went to the osen,” rather than “I went to the ocean.” The teacher hadn’t corrected the mistake because the emphasis was on visual cues — a picture of the ocean — rather than spelling.
With phonics, you learn to sound out the word. It’s a much more practical and efficient method of teaching literacy. It didn’t seem like the district was going to adopt the method anytime soon. We had to search because private reading specialists are in high demand in our area, but we found a tutor for Carter.
She finished her second kindergarten year in public school before beginning first grade at a local Catholic school. It cost $10,000 a year, and we were fortunate enough to be able to budget for that.
We’re glad we switched to a private Catholic school
The curriculum is very old-school, and they teach phonics. Carter, now 8, still has a tendency to look for picture cues on the page when she’s reading, but she’s getting there. It broke my heart when her confidence was in the toilet at her previous school. But her bucket of self-esteem is filling up.
We were so happy with the Catholic school that we sent Huddy, Carter’s younger brother, there, too. He’s attended for two years and has a good grasp and understanding of phonics.
In fact, at 6, he has excelled past his sister in reading because he has never been subjected to a nonsense visual cue program.
As for Carter, she has continued to study with a tutor at home, and we help her at night. The best thing is that she finally seems to be enjoying books and the written word.
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