Emma Watson has gone from being a fictional childhood hero to an IRL adult one, working as an activist and UN ambassador alongside her flourishing Hollywood career. But, as with anyone who has a public platform, her love life has always been a hot topic of speculation. But Emma Watson has said she identifies as self-partnered after years of feeling totally differently about being single. Theres no denying that, when it comes to relationship labels, “single” is still a pretty loaded terns, but Watson has flipped it on its head and proven how outdated it is to still be fixated on whether someone is “with” someone.
Watson chatted with Paris Lees for Vogue on the run up to the release of Little Women. Speaking about her relationship status, Watson said:
I never believed the whole Im happy single spiel. I was like, This is totally spiel. It took me a long time, but Im very happy [being single]. I call it being self-partnered.
While she has been linked to a few people in the past (including Harry Potter co-star Tom Felton), she has confirmed she isnt seeing anyone romantically right now and couldnt be happier.
However, she also revealed she isnt totally exempt from societal pressures. She said in Vogue, I was like, ‘Why does everyone make such a big fuss about turning 30? This is not a big deal’ …. cut to 29, and Im like, ‘Oh my God, I feel so stressed and anxious.’ And I realise its because there is suddenly this bloody influx of subliminal messaging around.
If you have not built a home, if you do not have a husband, if you do not have a baby, and you are turning 30, and youre not in some incredibly secure, stable place in your career, or youre still figuring things out Theres just this incredible amount of anxiety.
It would seem that no matter how far weve come, the pressure to couple up by a certain age is still there. Statistics from eHarmony reveal that 81% of singles in their mid-twenties to mid-thirties feel pushed into settling down. “With [these stats] in mind, we need to support our single friends and relatives and stop stigmatising their experiences,” says relationship expert Rachael Lloyd. “To echo Emma Watsons sentiments independence is an individual choice and you can find happiness and fulfilment without rushing into a hasty relationship.”
Watson continues to be a pretty inspirational gal and you can catch her alongside equally phenomenal women, Meryl Streep, Saoirse Ronan, and Laura Dern, in Little Women, which airs Dec. 26-28 at 8.30 p.m. on BBC One.
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